" For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.  In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will "  (Ephesians 1:4-5)

The Bible says we are children of God. Do you value children? How do you think God therefore values his?

Do you define your kids according to their problems? Not if you love them!  Do you like being labelled?